Just thoughts
Love does not happen in an instant but once it happens the world seems different. The difference is not just happiness but also the sorrows it accompanies. Of course its the best feeling one can experience but becomes bitter if it doesn't meet the destiny it is meant to be. Its not that ,we don't know the consequences yet we don't stop and face it till it drains all our emotions.The reason being so practical in such thoughts is because when you attain that stage ,there is no fear and its just series of happenings left to face. It feels strange that these thoughts are not same in males and females. On one hand it is taken as a pain and on the other as a lesson of life. Every time there is a suffering for one , the other marks it a learning for new beginning . But that doesn't change the outcome. In fact is is a dilemma that whether there is and end to it or not. Certainly this part of life never dies .